What would happen to your children if you couldn't care for them? Legal plans provide peace of mind and protection in case of illness, death, or deportation. You can choose what works best for you:
| What is it called? | How does it work? | Is a court involved? | When does it start? | How long does it last? | Consider this, if: |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Designation of Person in Parental Relation (PPR) | You pick someone to make everyday medical and educational decisions for your child. You do this by signing a form in front of a notary. | No | You decide | You decide, up to 1 year | - You only need a temporary arrangement - You need someone to handle routine medical appointments and school matters - You won’t need someone else to change your child’s school district, make big medical decisions for your child, or get your child a passport - You want a simple solution that doesn't involve the courts |
| Designation of Standby Guardian (SBG) | You pick someone to care for your child if something happens to you. You do this by signing a simple form in front of witnesses. | Yes, but not at first. The guardian must go to court within 60 days of the triggering event. | It starts with a "triggering event", like: you die, become unable to care for your child, or are detained/deported. | 60 days, unless the court grants permanent guardianship. | - You need a more permanent option - You don’t want to go to court right now - You might need someone to make big decisions for your child |
| Standby Guardianship Petition | This is like the "Designation of Standby Guardian," except you go to court ahead of time. You pick someone and ask a judge to approve them. | Yes, you file papers at the court before the triggering event happens. | It starts with a triggering event. The guardian then must prove it to the court within 60–90 days. | Permanent | - You want legal approval from a judge - You need a more permanent option - You want to participate in the court process |
Important things to keep in mind:
- You can cancel or change these arrangements.
- You do not lose your parental rights.
- Choose the tool that best fits your specific family situation and needs. Talk to a lawyer if you’re not sure.
- Whichever option you pick, make sure the caregiver knows where to find important information for your children (health insurance cards, birth certificates, school and medical papers, passports). Talk with the caregiver about your plans, your children’s needs, and your family’s values.
Last Reviewed: June 11, 2025