What would happen to your children if you couldn't care for them? Legal plans provide peace of mind and protection in case of illness, death, or deportation. You can choose what works best for you:
What is it called? | How does it work? | Is a court involved? | When does it start? | How long does it last? | Consider this, if: |
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Designation of Person in Parental Relation (PPR) | You pick someone to make everyday medical and educational decisions for your child. You do this by signing a form in front of a notary. | No | You decide | You decide, up to 1 year | |
Designation of Standby Guardian (SBG) | Yes, but not at first. The guardian must go to court within 60 days of the triggering event. | It starts with a "triggering event”, like:
- You die - You become physically or mentally unable to care for your child. - You and your child are separated by immigration detention or deportation | It lasts for 60 days after a triggering event. It becomes permanent if: 1. The standby guardian files for guardianship and 2. The judge approves the guardianship. | - You need a more permanent option - You don’t want to go to court right now - You might need someone to make big decisions for your child, like moving with them, getting them a passport, or making major medical decisions | |
Standby Guardianship Petition | This is like the "Designation of Standby Guardian," except you go to court ahead of time. You pick someone to be the guardian and ask a judge to approve them. | It starts with a triggering event. The guardian has 60 to 90 days (depending on the trigger) to show the court that the triggering event happened.
(Your guardian does not have another hearing.) | Permanent | - You prefer to have the arrangement legally approved by a judge - You need a more permanent option - You want to participate in the court hearing about the guardianship |
Important things to keep in mind:
- You can cancel or change these arrangements.
- You do not lose your parental rights.
- Choose the tool that best fits your specific family situation and needs. Talk to a lawyer if you’re not sure.
- Whichever option you pick, make sure the caregiver knows where to find important information for your children (health insurance cards, birth certificates, school and medical papers, passports). Talk with the caregiver about your plans, your children’s needs, and your family’s values.
Last Reviewed: June 11, 2025